Unlock Your Sexual Confidence

Elite

Coaching

1:1 Coaching with Dr. Mike Stokes

Unlock Your Sexual Confidence

Elite

Coaching

1:1 Coaching with Dr. Mike Stokes

You've tried everything...

Self-help books, online forums, and maybe even therapy

But nothing seems to stick. You're still feeling stuck, anxious, and disconnected from your own sexual desires. Whether it's struggles with porn, erectile dysfunction, or intimacy with your partner, you've faced enough dead-ends to know the advice out there is either generic or simply doesn’t work for men like you.

Now imagine a program built for men just like you

This is where 1:1 personalized coaching comes in, using a straightforward, no-fluff approach that offers the convenience and real-time support you need to tackle your sexual health head-on.

You don't need another course. You need real, personalized help.

Most guys I work with

have said it themselves:

"The advice out there isn't built for me."

And they're right. Cookie-cutter solutions aren’t designed for men facing specific sexual health challenges like porn addiction, performance anxiety, and intimacy issues.

You need a plan tailored specifically to your needs, built around the way your mind and body functions.

Here's What You May Be Struggling With:

Performance anxiety that takes you out of the moment.

Porn habits you can't seem to shake off, no matter how hard you try.

Erectile dysfunction or other sexual performance issues that impact your confidence.

A disconnect with your partner that leaves you feeling frustrated and unfulfilled.

A dry spell so long you’ve forgotten how to even initiate.

Sound familiar?

You're not alone.

Why Most Solutions Fall Short

01

One-size-fits-all advice doesn't cut it. You're unique, and your challenges need to be addressed with strategies designed specifically for you.

02

Most therapists avoid the root causes of sexual health issues, giving you band-aid solutions without addressing what's really going on.

03

You're tired of feeling shame and guilt about your desires, your sexual performance, or your struggles with porn. You want to move forward with confidence.

The Truth

If you don’t take control of your sexual health now, it will get worse. The more time you spend ignoring the issues or trying to push through without real help, the more damage is being done—not just to your confidence, but to your relationships, your mental health, and your overall well-being.

Here's what you're already facing:

Porn use that keeps spiraling out of control. You think you can stop, but every time you try, you end up back in the same cycle. It’s affecting your focus, your energy, and your sex life.

Erectile dysfunction that’s starting to get worse. What used to be an occasional issue is now happening more frequently, and it’s messing with your head. The anxiety of “what if it happens again” is keeping you from enjoying sex.

A disconnection from your partner. They’ve noticed the distance between you. The more you struggle with performance or turn to porn, the further apart you’re drifting emotionally and physically.

A loss of confidence in bed. The longer you go without addressing the root causes of your issues, the more you doubt yourself. You start to avoid sex, making the problem even worse.

Shame that’s eating you up inside. You’re constantly battling feelings of guilt, wondering if you’re broken or if there’s something wrong with you.

And it doesn’t stop there. Without the right help, these problems snowball, affecting everything from your mental health to your professional life. You feel stuck, trapped in a cycle of frustration and failure.

You don't want that.

I don't want that for you.

With the right help...

You reclaim your confidence—both in the bedroom and in your day-to-day life

You reconnect with your partner, building deeper intimacy and mutual respect.

You gain control over your desires, without shame or guilt, and start enjoying sex the way you were always meant to.

You break free from the cycle of porn or performance anxiety, and that shift creates a ripple effect in every other area of your life.

But this process isn’t easy.

Which means,

you're going to need:

The right kind of support—someone who gets it and knows how to guide you through the process.

A personalized strategy tailored to your specific challenges and goals.

Accountability—to keep you on track even when things get tough.

With the right guidance, you'll have a sex life more satisfying than you ever thought possible. And I’m here to help you get there.

Real Talk:

Here's what's different about this coaching

You’ll work directly with me, Dr. Mike Stokes, in one-on-one coaching relationship—with a method designed to give you direct, daily support, accountability, and tailored strategies that meet you where you are. We’ll tackle everything from porn habits to performance anxiety with clarity and action.

Daily Support Through Text:
Unlike traditional therapy or online courses, you’ll get personalized coaching on demand. Message me anytime, and we’ll work through real solutions together.

Real Conversations About Your Sexual Health:
No taboos, no judgment. We’ll talk about what’s really going on in your mind and body and how to regain control.

A Different Approach for Real Men:
We’ll focus on the issues that matter most to you as a man—rebuilding confidence, improving performance, and understanding your sexuality in a healthy way.

The Method

And why it works

01

Tactical Strategies,

Not TheoDividerries:

Each strategy is practical, grounded in what actually works for men in your situation.

02

Daily

Accountability:

You won’t be left to figure things out on your own. With daily check-ins, I’ll help you stay on track.

01

No BS,

Just Results:

You need direct answers, not vague promises. We’ll talk about what you need to do now to see immediate improvement.

What You Can

Expect to Achieve:

  • Control Over Your Sexual Health: Learn how to master your body, overcome erectile dysfunction, and feel confident in bed again.

  • Freedom from Porn Addiction: Discover the root causes of your porn use and finally break the cycle that’s been holding you back.

  • Deepened Intimacy: Reconnect with your partner, reigniting the passion and desire in your relationship.

  • Reduced Anxiety: Learn techniques to stay present, enjoy sex more fully, and stop worrying about performance.


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Master Your Sexual Confidence:

Take Control, Break Free, and Thrive

An elite coaching program for men who want more. More satisfaction, more confidence, more intimacy.

How it works:

My Elite Coaching Program is like having a sexual health guru (it’s me, I’m the guru) in your pocket.

This 1:1 coaching program is designed for men who are serious about taking control of their sexual health. I know you need personalized support for your unique situation, so this program is highly exclusive and capped at a limited number of participants.

I want to make certain each man receives the attention and care necessary to make real, lasting change in his life.

Commitment is Key

Elite Coaching isn’t a quick fix

Commitment is Key

Elite Coaching isn’t a quick fix

I ask for a minimum of three months of participation to ensure we can change habits, improve your sexual health, reduce anxiety, and break the cycles keeping you stuck.

I’m dedicated to your success, but I expect the same commitment from you. I don’t offer revolving-door entry; this program requires focus, consistency, and dedication.

I built this program on

three pillars to

ensure your transformation

pillar

01

Daily Personalized Coaching Through Voxer

This program is centered around daily, direct communication via Voxer, where you’ll have access to me every day for personalized coaching and support - private, non-judgmental sex advice in your pocket.

Whether you're dealing with an immediate struggle (struggling with unhealthy habits), need a quick pep talk (have a date this week and are already feeling anxious?), or want advice on a particular issue (want to discuss “that thing” with your partner?) I’m here to help with all your sexual health needs.

Response Time: I commit to responding within 24 hours during business days, ensuring you always have the guidance you need when you need it most.

pillar

02

Tailored Strategies: No More Guesswork

This program is built around your unique challenges. Unlike generic programs or one-size-fits-all courses, every aspect of your coaching is designed specifically for you. From the first consultation to our daily conversations, you’ll get customized guidance that fits your personal situation, lifestyle, and goals.

Here’s what you can expect from me:

In-Depth Personal

Assessment:

Before we begin, we’ll dive deep into your history, your habits, and your patterns so we can create a plan that targets the root of the issue, not just the symptoms.

Customized Exercises and Techniques:

Struggling with staying present during sex? You’ll get mindfulness techniques that fit into your daily routine. Trying to break the cycle of porn use? We’ll work on mental and physical strategies tailored to your specific triggers and needs. There’s no guessing—just proven tactics designed for you.

Ongoing

Adjustments:

Life isn’t static, and your coaching plan shouldn’t be either. I’ll continuously monitor your progress and tweak your strategies based on what’s working and what’s not.

In-Depth Personal

Assessment:

Before we begin, we’ll dive deep into your history, your habits, and your patterns so we can create a plan that targets the root of the issue, not just the symptoms.

Customized Exercises and Techniques:

Struggling with staying present during sex? You’ll get mindfulness techniques that fit into your daily routine. Trying to break the cycle of porn use? We’ll work on mental and physical strategies tailored to your specific triggers and needs. There’s no guessing—just proven tactics designed for you.

Ongoing

Adjustments:

Life isn’t static, and your coaching plan shouldn’t be either. I’ll continuously monitor your progress and tweak your strategies based on what’s working and what’s not.

Practical, Real-World Solutions:

We’ll focus on strategies that you can actually apply in real time. Unrealistic expectations are out, and actionable advice is the name of the game.

Personalized Feedback:


Unlike programs that leave you to figure things out on your own, you’ll receive regular feedback on your progress. Through our daily Voxer conversations, I’ll be there to guide you, adjust your strategy, and celebrate your wins. This constant feedback loop keeps you moving forward, eliminating the guesswork so you can focus on making real progress.

Long-Term

Focus:

Tailoring the strategies isn’t just about short-term fixes. We’ll also build a long-term plan that ensures lasting results. You don’t want better sex for three months, you want mind blowing intimacy for life. I’ve got you.

Practical, Real-World Solutions:

We’ll focus on strategies that you can actually apply in real time. Unrealistic expectations are out, and actionable advice is the name of the game.

Personalized Feedback:


Unlike programs that leave you to figure things out on your own, you’ll receive regular feedback on your progress. Through our daily Voxer conversations, I’ll be there to guide you, adjust your strategy, and celebrate your wins. This constant feedback loop keeps you moving forward, eliminating the guesswork so you can focus on making real progress.

Long-Term

Focus:

Tailoring the strategies isn’t just about short-term fixes. We’ll also build a long-term plan that ensures lasting results. You don’t want better sex for three months, you want mind blowing intimacy for life. I’ve got you.

pillar

03

Ongoing Support and Accountability

The final pillar of this program is the ongoing support network that keeps you accountable and motivated. I’m here to ensure you stay focused, follow through, and keep your promises to yourself.

What's Included in

The Program

01

Personalized

Coaching:

You get real-time access to me, a licensed therapist specializing in men’s sexual health. Every conversation, strategy, and action plan is customized to your specific situation.

02

Immediate

Feedback:

You don’t have to wait for weekly appointments. Through daily Voxer messaging, you get timely advice and support that helps you stay on track.

03

Proven

Techniques:

The tools and strategies I share are built from years of experience working with men just like you. They are practical, actionable, and designed to deliver real results—no fluff.

04

Full

Confidentiality:

Every conversation and message is 100% private. You can open up without fear of judgment and work through your challenges in a safe, supportive space.

Exclusive and

High-Commitment

This is not a program for everyone, I didn’t design it that way. Elite Coaching is for men who are ready to invest the time, energy, and effort required to make real changes in their lives.

If you’re serious about finally taking control of your sexual health and ready to commit to the journey, I invite you to apply now. I’m ready to help you unlock the sexual confidence and satisfaction you deserve, are you?

Next Steps:

Dr. Michael Stokes

Dr. Mike Stokes is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with over a decade of experience helping men regain control over their sexual health. As a recognized expert in men's sexual health and intimacy, Dr. Mike has spent years guiding men through the complex challenges of sexual performance, porn addiction, relationship dynamics, and the mental health issues that often accompany these struggles.

With a no-nonsense, results-driven approach, Dr. Mike offers practical, actionable advice for men looking to overcome the barriers that hold them back from enjoying a fulfilling and confident sex life.

A unique approach rooted in experience

Dr. Mike understands...

That most men are tired of the generic, cookie-cutter advice that’s all too common in the world of sexual health. Through his Autonomous Sexuality Model, Dr. Mike focuses on empowering men to take ownership of their sexual health, guiding them to break free from shame, guilt, and societal pressures. He’s worked with hundreds of men to not only resolve their sexual health challenges but to also build stronger, more intimate relationships with their partners.

He is the author of several works on men’s sexual health, including the upcoming book Mister: A Sex Therapist Answers the Questions you’re Afraid to Ask. His work covers everything from overcoming porn addiction to addressing performance anxiety, demystifying sexual fantasies, and understanding the full spectrum of male sexuality​​.

A Proven Track Record with Real Results

Dr. Mike’s methods have transformed the lives of countless men, helping them regain confidence in the bedroom and beyond. Whether dealing with erectile dysfunction, porn addiction, or intimacy issues, his tailored, science-backed strategies have delivered lasting results.

He is the author of several works on men’s sexual health, including the upcoming book Mister: A Sex Therapist Answers the Questions you’re Afraid to Ask. His work covers everything from overcoming porn addiction to addressing performance anxiety, demystifying sexual fantasies, and understanding the full spectrum of male sexuality​​.

A Proven Track Record with Real Results

Dr. Mike’s methods have transformed the lives of countless men, helping them regain confidence in the bedroom and beyond. Whether dealing with erectile dysfunction, porn addiction, or intimacy issues, his tailored, science-backed strategies have delivered lasting results.

Using a combination of neuroscience, somatic techniques, cognitive reframing, and practical habit-building exercises, Dr. Mike helps men rewire their brains, allowing them to overcome compulsive behaviors and develop healthy, sustainable sexual practices. His no-judgment approach means men can discuss sensitive topics openly and without fear, allowing them to address the root causes of their challenges head-on​​.

Testimonials

Next Steps:

If you’re ready to take control of your sexual health and break free from the struggles holding you back...

If you need personalized guidance to overcome porn addiction, performance anxiety, or intimacy issues with your partner...

If you're looking for real, no-nonsense support to help you build lasting confidence and take back your sexual well-being...

You can apply now to see if you’re a fit for Dr. Mike’s 1:1 coaching program.

This is your opportunity to work directly with me, Dr. Mike, in a personalized, confidential setting where we’ll tackle your unique challenges head-on.

No fluff, no generic advice—just tailored strategies that work for you.

Here’s how to get started

01

Apply for a

Free Consultation:

You get real-time access to me, a licensed therapist specializing in men’s sexual health. Every conversation, strategy, and action plan is customized to your specific situation.

02

Schedule

a Call:

If your application is approved, we’ll schedule a no-obligation call to dive deeper into your challenges, discuss your goals, and create a plan to move forward.

03

Start working

privately with Dr. Mike:

Once you’re accepted, we’ll start immediately with daily coaching via Voxer, ongoing support, and personalized strategies to help you overcome your struggles and build the confident, satisfying sex life you deserve.

Ready to take action?

Don't wait—this is your chance

to break free and take control.

I want you to take control of your sexual health and feel confident in every area of your life.

When we decide to work

together, you’ll get:

Straightforward, powerful strategies designed for men like you who are ready to break free from porn addiction, overcome performance anxiety, and build deeper connections with their partners.

Personalized, hands-on support through daily communication via Voxer. We’ll work through your specific challenges together, with real-time feedback and actionable advice that fits your life.

A reliable support system, where you’re not just another client. I’ll be there to help you stay accountable every step of the way—whether you need encouragement, guidance, or someone to talk through the tough moments

Complete confidentiality. You’ll have a private, judgment-free space to discuss whatever’s on your mind. No topic is off-limits, and every conversation is about helping you move forward, guilt-free.

This experience is about more than just getting results

It’s about helping you feel good about yourself again, rebuild your confidence, and enjoy a healthier, more fulfilling sex life. I’m here to guide you, but the real change comes from you deciding you’re ready to take control.

Are you ready?

Let’s make this the moment you start living with confidence and pride.

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Frequently Asked Questions

1. What can I expect from coaching with Dr. Mike?

You can expect personalized, one-on-one coaching tailored specifically to your sexual health challenges. We’ll work together daily and you’ll receive customized strategies designed to address your specific needs, whether that’s breaking free from porn addiction, overcoming performance anxiety, or improving intimacy with your partner. The program is practical, results-driven, and focused on your long-term success.

2. How does the text based coaching work?

We use a special app called Voxer. Voxer is a voice and text messaging app that allows us to communicate in real time. Once you join the program, you’ll have daily access to me through Voxer. This means you can ask questions, get advice, and receive support whenever you need it, without waiting for weekly appointments. I respond within 24 hours during business days, ensuring you always have the guidance and accountability you need.

3. How long do I need to commit to coaching?

The minimum commitment for this program is three months. Real change takes time, and this duration allows us to address the root causes of your challenges and create lasting improvements in your sexual health. I also offer a 12-month program for those looking for a more comprehensive, life-changing transformation.

4. Is the coaching confidential?

Absolutely. Your privacy is my top priority. All of our conversations, whether through Voxer or during our deep-dive sessions, are 100% confidential. You’ll have a safe, judgment-free space to openly discuss your concerns, challenges, and progress without fear of exposure.

5. What issues can the coaching help with?

This coaching program can help you overcome a range of sexual health challenges, including:

• Porn addiction

• Erectile dysfunction

• Performance anxiety

• Lack of intimacy or communication issues with your partner

• Rebuilding confidence in the bedroom 

• And More!

No matter the issue, the program is designed to help you regain control and build a healthier, more fulfilling sex life.

6. How is this different from traditional therapy?

Traditional therapy often focuses on broader emotional or mental health issues, while this program is laser-focused on men’s sexual health. You’ll receive real-time, practical strategies designed specifically to address your sexual challenges. Plus, the daily coaching via Voxer gives you constant support, making it more hands-on and actionable than typical weekly therapy sessions.

7. How do I know if this is right for me?

If you’ve tried other solutions like therapy, self-help books, or courses without success, and you’re serious about making real changes in your sexual health, this program is likely a great fit. I work with men who are ready to commit to their personal growth and want a no-fluff, action-oriented approach to resolving their issues.

8. How do I get started?

To get started, simply apply for a free consultation. Once I review your application, we’ll schedule a no-obligation call to discuss your challenges and see if this program is the right fit for you. If accepted, we’ll begin working together immediately to create your personalized plan.


Ready to take the next step?

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